Mm. Contrary to what I was saying before...no. I have not gone to her yet. After thinking about it, I realized that confronting her so soon might spell more trouble for my son than he is even dealing with now...I have no way to guarantee that, of course, but I also do not know the level of influence over him she already has. I am afraid of doing anything to set her off, lest she use him as leverage against me.

[Which he has absolutely no doubt she would, given the chance.]